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Accessorize with Halloween Jewelry

10/26/2018

by Phoenix A. Desertsong, Staff Writer, Healer & Advocate

Looking for a low-key, but fun way to celebrate Halloween without going all out with wearing a full on Halloween costume? You can always accessorize with Halloween jewelry! Holiday jewelry has become a trend. While Christmas jewelry, and even Easter jewelry, have become quite popular, nothing beats Halloween accessories!

Finding Accessories and Jewelry for Halloween

Christmas jewelry may be the first thing people think of when it comes to holliday jewelry. But for now, Halloween jewelry is a close second. There are many different motifs to choose from with Halloween jewelry, including black cats (which work all year), pumpkins, spiders, little ghosts, witches, zombies, and more! You can find these themes on bracelets, earrings, pendants, and more.

The best part about most Halloween jewelry is that it can actually be used all year, unlike Christmas jewelry which is very specific to the time of year. Making Halloween jewelry a part of your everyday wardrobe is easy and fun!

Why Wear Halloween Jewelry?

While it may seem strange to some people to be wearing skeleton earrings and black cat brooches, Halloween jewelry is actually a versatile accessory. It’s probably the best way to celebrate the Halloween holiday without being obnoxious about it. It’s not as blatantly obvious as Christmas jewelry, for example.

It’s also really good for wearing to the office, where there may be a business dress code. Not all offices have casual days, although many do have Halloween exceptions nowadays. But even then, many costumes may not be considered appropriate. Jewelry is a good way to celebrate Halloween while not necessarily bringing your “creative” Halloween costume to the office. It’s very unlikely that most bosses will complain about tasteful Halloween-themed earrings or pendants, after all.

Halloween jewelry can also help you put the finishing touches on your Halloween costume. If you’re trying to be a witch, for example, you can add some glamour to your outfit with a large spider ring or some flashy bat earrings. So, Halloween jewelry can be as much a complement to your costume as it is just to wear everyday.

When you’re looking for a way to celebrate Halloween in October or all year long, Halloween jewelry is that perfect accessory!

See all of the Goth, Vamp, Witchy, & Halloween Jewelry & Accessories we have at our Intent-sive Nature crafts & hobbies store!

Who’s Too Old for Halloween?

10/21/2018

by Phoenix A. Desertsong, Staff Writer, Healer & Advocate

Image © Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

It seems like every year that older and older kids are still out trick-or-treating on Halloween, well after the younger kids have already come by. These tweens and teens are often trick-or-treating late into the night, often without adults with them. For many different reasons, including safety, many parents are asking themselves, “Who’s Too Old for Halloween?”

The Halloween Age Debate

People are only too happy to give out candy to preschool, kindergarten and elementary kids who have their cute and often creative Halloween costumes. But while they often have their parents, older siblings, or guardians with them, the tweens and teens often don’t have anyone watching them. Without supervision, they often roam the streets well into the night.

There’s definitely quite a debate about letting older kids roam the street late into the Halloween night. There are parents who are only happy to let their older children enjoy their Halloween costumes and the fun that goes with trick-or-treating. But other parents have the concern that teens, who love to experiment, might be out doing a lot more than that. While alcohol, drugs, and sex aren’t necessarily in the picture, there are plenty of other reasons that can get teens in trouble without supervision.

The real concern is that there are many strange and unsavory characters out and about on Halloween. While you may not see them walking around, many neighborhoods have them. There are lurkers who often sit in cars and can pounce on unsuspecting children without notice. This is perhaps the greatest argument against letting kids go out on Halloween night.

There’s also the problem of the “mob mentality” that often leads to kids doing things that they would never do on their own. As Halloween is famously a night of causing trouble, even the most well-behaved kids may find themselves doing things that could get them breaking the law or putting themselves in great danger.

Should Your Pre-Teens and Teens Choose an Alternative to Trick-or-Treating?

The obvious solution to the Halloween age debate is to supervise your trick-or-treating children, no matter how old they are. Of course, most teens don’t want their parents lurking behind them, as that may be a source of embarrassment for them. There are ways for your older children to still enjoy their Halloween costumes and night out, however.

Some parents let their older kids dress up in their Halloween costumes but tell them that they need to stay home and hand out the candy. This isn’t always the best solution, though, as you do want your kids to have fun.

The better solution to that is to host a Halloween party where your kids can have their friends over in a safe environment. This is a much better compromise than essentially giving your Kids a chore on what’s supposed to be a fun night. With a party, your kids can choose a theme and be creative, without all the wandering about. There’s also harvest parties at local churches and community centers. You could also visit haunted houses or go on hayrides as a family.

What if Your Kids Just Want to Go Trick-Or-Treating

If your kids really insist on still trick-or-treating, there are safety precautions that they can take. Be sure that they keep themselves highly visible with things like glow-in-the-dark costumes or accessories. It’s also a good idea to have someone watching your children who they wouldn’t be embarrassed about having follow them around, such as a family friend or relative.

Really, there’s no age limit on trick-or-treating. Yes, there are plenty of alternative, but you want your kids to be able to choose their own activity on Halloween night. Present the alternatives, but ultimately, try to let your child do what they want to do, within reason and while taking the right safety precautions. Halloween is about having fun, and it’s just good sense to stay safe, no matter what age your kids are.

These Skull Earrings Complete Any Halloween Wardrobe!

10/7/2017

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Looking for the perfect accessory to accent your Halloween costume or wardrobe? These skull earrings are to die for and they come in several ghoulish colors! They're scary enough to adorn during a haunted house visit, classy enough to wear to the office, and fun enough for a Halloween evening on the town. Get one or more to match your Halloween costume or outfit!

For more fun jewelry, visit our family-owned shop, Intent-sive Nature!

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A Special Holiday Challenge For All

11/17/2016

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

If you are reading this, this message must be for you. If you do not celebrate any winter holidays, please read on anyway. I believe that people experience everything for a reason. Because you found this, you must be meant to read this special holiday challenge.

This time of year can be a special time for everyone, not just those who believe in the birth of a higher power. There are many holidays to celebrate in the winter. Even if you celebrate no holidays, you can still get in the joyous mood this season often brings.

The winter holiday season is not about how much you can receive. It's about how much you can give. Everyone knows someone who needs something. The best gift is not always of value in money. However, some might be.

Maybe someone you know is in need of a home. Are you willing to share yours? Perhaps your financial position would even permit you to help them purchase a home or even to pay rent for a few months while they get on their feet.

Maybe you know someone who may not eat this holiday season. Are you willing to open up your home to them and allow them to dine with your family, expecting nothing in return?

Are you willing to give someone a gift that truly means the world to them? Will you do so even if it inconveniences you in some way?

If you have no money to spend, it doesn't mean you have nothing to offer. Offer to clean someone's home, offer a hug, or even a free night of babysitting.

Visit a shelter and volunteer to help serve food to the less fortunate, even if you yourself are one of the unfortunate ones who cannot afford to eat.

The value of a gift is not in the money spent on it, but in the thought put into it. Will the gifts you give mean something more than just dollars spent?

There may be someone in a hospice, hospital bed, or nursing home that would give the world just to have a visitor and a hug on their favorite holiday. Could you be that person?

What if someone you know has nothing to give or offer to you? Will you still do something for them?

Your challenge this holiday season is to give thanks for what you have, even if it isn't much and to give of yourself freely, expecting nothing in return. Will you do it or will you ignore this message?

Also, remember that even though holidays will pass, there's always room for giving every day of the year.

Let us know in the comments below what you plan to do to help someone.

Note: This is an older piece I originally published via Yahoo Contributor Network. However, the message will still apply.

Manage Holiday Budgets, Gifts Online Using Gift Box Home

10/26/2016

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Gift Boxes

What do you do when you have a list of people to buy holiday gifts for and a budget to stick to? Some websites are now helping you keep track of gifts, as well as any budgets you may have. Here’s how to manage holiday budgets and gifts online using Gift Box Home.

Manage Holiday Gifts and Budgets Online

Gone are the days of going through pages and pages of paper to keep track of your budget. It's the computer age and time to get with the program. Speaking of programs, you won't even need one to manage your holiday gifts and budgets online. All you need is a computer and an Internet connection. One Website to check out is GiftBoxHome.com, which allows you to manage multiple holiday gifts and lists in one place. Simply sign up and start using it right away.

Why Should You Manage Budgets and Gifts Online?

When you choose to manage your holiday gifts and budgets online, you are doing the planet a favor. Every little bit helps. By using the Internet, you are saving paper and wasting fewer trees. Another reason to manage gifts and budgets online is the benefit of having everything neat, organized and all in one place.

Lists and sheets of paper can get lost in the hustle and bustle of holidays. With the information stored online, you know it's a log on and a password away, not wedged under some stack of papers on the desk. Speaking of passwords, at GiftBoxHome.com, your information is password protected and not shared with anyone. Only you can see it, which is a good thing considering that some people like to peek at holiday gift plans.

How to Manage Holiday Gifts and Budgets Online

To manage your holiday gifts and budgets online, simply log on and sign into the website you will be using. GiftBoxHome.com allows for tracking several items. You can manage budgets as well as track your own wish lists and the wish lists of others. This way you won't duplicate or forget a gift. Also included is a way to manage refund dates, upcoming holidays and more. GiftBoxHome.com instructions are easy to use and follow.

Top 5 Fun Couples Costumes For Halloween Or Otherwise

10/8/2016

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Need something super fun and creative to dress up in as a couple? If you don't know where to start, here's our top 5 fun couples costumes.

Peanut Butter and Jelly

Do you and your loved one stick together like peanut butter and jelly? Show everyone this Halloween with this sweet and fun couples costume.

Stepping Out Skeleton Couple

Looking to be ghoulish, but fun at the same time? This silly couples skeleton costume is sure to get looks at any costume party or Halloween event.

Plug and Socket Couples Costume

Are you and your significant other plugged into each other all the time? Express it in a fun way with this plug and socket couples costume for Halloween or any time.

Tooth Fairy & Tooth Adult Couples

This cute and fun couples costume plays on the fantasy side of things. The tooth costume comes with a crown and the fairy costume comes complete with a wand, dress, and wings.

Mr. & Mrs. Potato Head Costume Kit

Do you and your special someone want to bring out your playful side? Try this Mr. and Mrs. Potato Head costume kit on for size. This one is great for those into vintage toys or anyone who likes to be youthful or silly. It works for Halloween and all year.

Halloween Advice From Parents

10/1/2016

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

(HMM) Happy Halloween Little Ghost

Halloween can be filled with fun. But it’s important to know your stuff before treating the kids. We asked experienced parents to give us their best Halloween advice to help you out.

Let the children pick their own costume, carry a flashlight, watch for cars and make sure you know where your child is at all times. Don't rush, take your time and let them have fun. There is plenty of time to worry later. - Laurie Childree

Drive around your neighborhood a week to a few days before to scope out any "haunted" houses and plan a route to get there according to little legs. Carry flashlights. And don't have children eat the candy while you walk so you can check for ingredients in case of allergies. - Amanda Kimberley Linstruth-Beckom

Get back to the original history of the day. Then study the Wiccan and other earth based religions take on this day. - Sally Franklin Christie

Pick a small community, where there are a lot of older folks or folks with children. Stay with your children. The end of the walk is fine, but I usually dressed up to and followed them from house to house. NO eating anything until it's checked out by the adult or until they get home. Tell them to say thank you, even if they don't like what they got. Or dress up for a Fall Festival at church or schools and skip Trick or Treating all together. Before Halloween there are usually Apple Orchards that have corn mazes, pumpkins, wagon rides, etc. - Cherley Grogg

Always, always make sure you know your area. Have the kids walk in a group (with you behind if they are older, you don't want them to feel like they are being chaperoned). Discuss before you leave your house of a meeting area if you get separated. No eating candy unless it came from grandmas house. Rule of thumb...no candy gets ate until parents check it, and when you do check it you are allowed to keep 1 of each kind of candy, as payment for your ever so watchful eye!!! Lol... it's really using your common sense...it will keep your children safe. Oh...and really they don't need a crap load, teach them moderation. - Tina Sawyer Roberge

Parents, be consistent... If your parents, like mine, feel that Halloween is a pagan (read negative) celebration where millions of children whip themselves into a candy induced state of ecstasy and you refuse to allow your children to "partake", don't let them then dress up in a ghost costume made out of a homemade sheet and pass out candy at the front door to other God-less children... -because you don't want to answer the door on Oct 31... They didn't believe in sugar either... My sister and I still refer to this day as All Hypocrisy's Day. - Julie Bell

Have kids dress up and set up a stand in your front yard to hand out candy and hot chocolate. Teaches them to be willing to give instead of receive. - Donna Thacker

Hand crafted costumes are just as much fun as store bought and usually a lot more budget friendly. Get your kids involved with choosing and creating them. You're not only making a costume, you're making memories, too. - Aimee Plesa

Remember Halloween is just a holiday and kids should be taught in a fun way that it's not an excuse to eat too much or expect expensive costumes. Making them is much more fun. Teach them to respect other people's property, and to carve pumpkins with pride. Teach them to respect that little animals may be bewildered by it all and to above all be gentle to them and to other folks. - Rachelle Write

When you walk with your kids on Halloween night, leave your cell phone at home. Be present and fully enjoy the experience with your children. - Colleen Larson

Chew very quietly with the shower running. They will never know it was you that ate it all. :-P - T Lynn Morgan

Choosing Safe Halloween Costumes

9/21/2016

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Costumes

Trick-or-treat safety is not the only thing for parent to think about this Halloween. Choosing safe Halloween costumes for kids is also vital. Sure, that fuzzy bear costume may look sweet on your little one. But is it safe? How can you tell? From one parent to the next, here are some safety tips to keep in mind when choosing your child's next costume.

Check for sharp edges. Before ever putting that costume on your child, check for things that may scrape or scratch. Sharp edges can most commonly be found on masks and other costume accessories. But also check the costume itself for sharp edges and other pieces that jut out.

Test for allergies to latex and other masks. The last thing you want on Halloween is to rush your child to the ER over a reaction. Do an allergy test at least 48 hours prior to your child wearing his Halloween costume. Check each mask label for the manufacturer's instructions on testing for allergies. General instructions will likely include exposing a small area of the skin to the material for a certain amount of time.

Test for makeup and accessory allergies. Face makeup and other Halloween costume accessories may also cause an allergic reaction. You might avoid face makeup and certain accessories, use hypoallergenic face makeup, or do a skin allergy test at least 48 hours in advance.

How well can your child see through masks and around hats? Tiny holes for the eyes are just one no-no when it comes to Halloween masks. Be sure your child can see fully when wearing any hats, masks, and face accessories. If your child cannot see side to side and directly in front of him without rotating his head, that's a bad sign.

Is the costume weather-appropriate? Sure, that fairy princess costume is adorable. But if it's snowing outside, your child better also have some cute warm clothing on top or underneath. On that same token, if your child is wearing a thick bear costume and it's 80 degrees outside, there better be some air filtration and/or fans inside of it.

Pay attention to length. Tripping over a costume might be funny. But it can also be quite painful. Be sure your child's costume is no longer than 6 inches above the ankles to prevent accidents on stairs and while walking or dancing.

Use appropriate accompanying footwear. Tired after a long day at work? You know that feeling your feet get? Help prevent that in your child on Halloween by making sure footwear is appropriate. Try finding shoes that are both comfortable and appropriate to the costume. Slippers and other dress-up shoes can be bought in a larger size to slip over more comfortable footwear.

Be sure costumes are bright, glowing, or have lighted accessories. Traffic can be busy on Halloween with all the activities going on. Make sure your kids are bright enough to be seen from a good distance.

Check faux weaponry for real dangers. True, these are supposed to be fake weapons. But that doesn't mean they aren't still dangerous. Look for sharp edges, removable parts, and other potential hazards to kids before sending them off to have fun on Halloween.

Popular and Original Chihuahua Halloween Costume Ideas

9/8/2016

by Tara M. Clapper, Contributing Writer

Tompkins Square Halloween Dog Parade

Halloween is a favorite time of year for many Chihuahua owners--it's the perfect excuse to dress up your pet in an adorable costume. Most Chihuahua owners go for the cuteness factor at Halloween. Here are some top ideas for Chihuahua Halloween costumes. You can click on the links to buy the costume from the company selling it.

Most of the costumes range from $8.00-$33.00 plus shipping and handling. You can also check local pet stores for costumes to avoid those pesky shipping and handling fees.

Tattoo Dog - 1950s Greaser. Does your dog act like a punk from "Grease "or "West Side Story?" Dress your pooch appropriately with the Tattoo Dog costume. $10.88

Pirate Dog - Is your Chihuahua a pro at stealing shiny objects? Perhaps he'd make a great pirate! (Note: Take care using the eye patch; Chihuahuas have very sensitive eyes.) Pirate Dog costume. $31.00.

Dogzilla - Can your tiny terror take down Tokyo? Consider dressing her as Dogzilla! Dogzilla costume. $19.99.

Witchy Dog - Is your Chihuahua so cute she's considered bewitching? Dress her in a cute Candy Corn Witch Dog costume. $7.58

Taco Dog - Thanks to Taco Bell, Chihuahuas are forever associated with food from their native Mexico. This costume could be mildly offensive in multiple ways, but it's pretty adorable and designed specifically for Chihuahuas. Taco Dog costume. $33.00.

With all the cuteness created by Chis in their costumes, it's tempting to take them outside for Halloween! If you do, don't forget the basic safety tips:

Keep your dog away from chocolate.
Apply reflective surfaces to your dog's costume so she's visible at night.
Keep your dog leashed and away from heavy foot traffic.
Be prepared to carry him if you go on a long walk.
Don't forget a bag for any incidental doggy doo--that's scary stuff!

Please feel free to add other costume suggestions!

This post was originally published on Examiner.com as Chihuahua Examiner. Republished with permission of the author.

November 12th - Chicken Soup for the Soul Day

11/11/2015

by Richard Rowell; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Some good stuff for your soup (Image © Pixabay, Public Domain)

Originally created by Chicken Soup for the Soul Enterprises to help sell their well-known book series, every November 12th is Chicken Soup for the Soul day. Some see this day as an opportunity to celebrate homemade chicken soup., a long well-known cold remedy, although its the steam and spices that do more than the actual chicken. (Apparently, there's an amino acid which is released from chicken during cooking, chemically resembling a drug called acetylcysteine, prescribed for bronchitis and other respiratory problems - hat tip to Gone-Ta-Pott.) In any case, today's a great time to fix a bowl of your favorite soup - preferably homemade.

But the actual reason Chicken Soup for the Soul Day exists, according to its creators, is for it to be "a celebration of who you are, where you've been, where you're going, and who you will be thankful to when you get there!" That seems like a good way to celebrate both soup and yourself. Nothing like a bit of positive reflection!

How the Kids Challenged Santa Claus...Or So They Thought

12/5/2014

Keeping the Santa Belief Alive: A True Story

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Keeping the Santa Claus belief alive in kids can be tricky, especially when they start to get older. Older family members and sometimes friends will try to convince them otherwise. If you'd like to keep the Santa belief alive in your kids, perhaps an experience I had with my kids will help.

Being very open-minded and cherishing many faiths and traditions, we celebrate the magic of Santa with our kids during Christmas. We feel it is something fun and allows kids another opportunity to dream. They know about various religions surrounding Christmas and we share traditions with them from many winter holidays, Santa being one of them.

Reading The Santa Letters

Reading over the letters that the eldest three kids had left out for Santa one year, along with his Christmas Eve snack, I wondered how long they'd continue to believe. "Is Santa real" is a common question among kids their age, and many times even younger.

One portion of the eldest child's letter inquired "Santa, are your reindeer really real? If so, prove it and leave me one of the reindeer's jingle bells." How Santa would pull that off with hardly any time, I was not quite sure.

Moving on further in that letter, reindeer footprints were requested. Only problem is that we lived in a city where snow does not stick, if it snows at all. Where Santa would allow his reindeer to leave a footprint was a mystery to me.

This girl is one smart kid. She even requested stories of how Santa met Mrs Clause and one other Santa fact, along with other hints and undertones of Santa proof. Could Santa pull this one off? It was a longshot, but this is after all, Santa. He's magic. He can do anything.

The next letter was not quite so demanding. However, again the existence of the reindeer was challenged, namely Rudolph. "Is Rudolph really real and is Rudolph's nose really red? Does it really glow?"

The 3rd of the older children simply left Santa a paper and pen with no questions. Santa has been known to write back to the kids, so I assume him leaving only the paper and pen was related.

What Did Santa Do with the Challenge?

The kids and I had left the camera on the table next to Santa's treats and letters as we had been taking Christmas Eve pictures. Little did we know, Santa would be able to utilize that. He took a picture of his reindeer in the grass. There was a slight glare, but you could still see the reindeer.

He apologized about the glare in the picture, explaining about Rudolph's shiny nose being too bright to take a better one. It rarely snows in Houston, but we could tell the reindeer had been in our yard because they did leave tracks in the mud. As for leaving a reindeer bell, Santa had to take a picture of that, too. It would have messed up sky traffic if any of the reindeer were missing their bells. How else would people know they were coming?

That Santa Claus is one smart and resourceful person...

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

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How to Personalize and Decorate a Christmas Stocking Using Felt and More

12/5/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Stockings can be bought at many retail stores during Christmas time. However, it is also fun to decorate and personalize your own. The instructions below will help you create a stocking all your own, using felt and Christmas-related items.

Materials Needed

Felt (a few sheets of each color you want to use)
Cookie Cutters
Fabric Scissors
Glue Gun and Glue Sticks or Fabric Glue
Alphabet Stencil
White Marking Pencil
Red Marking Pencil
Old Newspapers

Choosing Your Stocking

When deciding upon a stocking to decorate, you want to be sure that the color is not similar to the color of the items you want to add to it. For instance, if you want to put red and white candy canes on your stocking, do not choose a red or white stocking. Instead, green or gold might be a better option. Plain stockings can be found at many retail locations, however, you might have better luck with different color options at a craft store.

Choosing Decorative Materials

There are many ways to decorate a stocking. Some might prefer to only use the felt and make their entire scene from that. Others may prefer to use ornaments, a small stuffed Rudolph (or other Christmas-themed toys), or even pine cones and sprigs of holly leaf or cinnamon sticks. There is no limit to what you use. This is your stocking. Decide upon the scene you wish to create and the items you'd like to use. Remember from above that you need to be sure your items are not the same color as your stocking.

Creating Your Shapes and Name

You should have felt in the colors you need to create whatever shapes you will use to create your scene. For instance, if you wanted to make a Christmas tree and a candy cane and have your name in gold lettering, you would need red, white, gold, and green felt pieces.

To create your shapes, you can either draw your own shapes on the felt with a marking pencil or use cookie cutters and trace around the edges. For the name, trace each letter you'll need from the stencil onto the felt color of choice. Once all your shapes and letters are traced, cut them all out and lay them onto your stocking as you'll want them to be when finished. You will want to have some old newspaper underneath the stocking to catch any glue drips. When you are doing this, your glue gun can be heating up with a glue stick inserted if you will use a glue gun.

Applying Shapes, Name, and Other Items

Now that all of your felt items are laid out onto your stocking, it is time to also lay any other items onto the stocking, such as ornaments and other decorations you may have chosen. Next, you'll glue each item into place, using either fabric glue or the glue gun. If you are using the glue gun, your stocking will dry and be ready for use fairly quickly. However, if you are using fabric glue, your stocking should dry for 24 hours before use.

Extra Tips

To prevent your stocking from sticking together, insert an egg carton or piece of cardboard inside it while using glue and while drying.

Using too much glue can cause it to leak through your stocking to the other side, which could cause it to stick to your insert or to the other side of itself.

Generally, when putting a name on the stocking, it will go across the top, but for a different twist, you can run the name diagonally up or down the front of the stocking.

Dollar Tree is a great place to find unique ornaments and craft items to decorate your stocking with. They also sell all the other supplies needed for this project.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Discover and Implement the Real Meaning of the Holidays for Your Family

12/5/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

The shops and lamp posts along the city streets are adorned with wreaths, bows, menorahs, and garlands. The hustle and bustle of the city has picked up its pace, due to gift, food and decoration shopping. You and your children may be among those shoppers. The holidays are drawing near. With all this excitement over presents, feasts, and decorations, have you taken the time to tell your kids the real meaning of winter holidays?

Determine Your Family's Personal Meaning

First off, you must determine what the holidays mean to your family. The exact meaning will vary from family to family. However, underlying meanings of the holidays can be similar. Many people believe that family is a big part of the true meaning of the holidays. Some also believe giving to others holds a deep meaning during the holidays. Special time spent with those you are closest to can be another meaning behind the holidays. And for others, the holidays can hold a religious meaning.

Seize The Moment

There are always opportune moments to seize for holiday conversations with your child. While gift shopping with your child, you can mention that while some people may be buying gifts, it is not as important to receive as it is to give. Explain about how great it feels to give to others. One way to reinforce that idea is to have your child do something special for someone else. It could be walking the dog of an immobile neighbor or carrying in someone's groceries from the car. It may even be as simple as creating a drawing or craft that is uniquely special to the one it is given to.

Another moment to explain the meaning of the holidays could come during grocery shopping to feed visiting relatives. Explain how important family is and what role they may play in holiday festivities, as well as how important it is for families to gather together and celebrate. Spending time together, for some families, only occurs during holidays. For those families it can be extra special.

Putting the Meaning Into Action

There are other ways to get the point across to your child. Try a few history lessons on holidays from History.com. While discussing various holidays celebrated in December, try discussing with the child common elements, including giving, spending time with family and thinking of others. You may also wish to have the child color some family-themed coloring pages from Edupics.com.

Perhaps you are on Travelzoo.com researching the best prices for your family member to visit you. A nice gesture that could provide a great example for your child would be for you to pay some or all of your family member's traveling expenses to come visit you. Donating to those who are in need can also be a wonderful example of teaching the true meaning of the holidays to children.

GuideStar.org has an easily accessible list of non-profit organizations that you may want to consider choosing from. If your family holds a spiritual or religious meaning behind the holidays, be sure to take time out to explain this to your child as well.

In essence, the methods used to explain the true meaning behind the holidays can vary. The methods you choose to implement don't matter as much as spending time together and sharing the meaning.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Where to Buy the Best Christmas Gift Boxes

12/4/2014

Order and Purchase Gift Boxes Online

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © queenbeeofbeverlyhills; Flickr.com

Gift wrapping can either be a fun activity or a frustration. I know there have been plenty of times I've tried to wrap some gift that just was not working with wrapping paper. Either the shape was just all wrong and a pain to figure how to wrap or the gift was too sharp. In each case, the gift would poke right through the paper or just look odd once wrapped. I needed some Christmas gift boxes. Christmas gift boxes can quickly turn the most difficult gift to wrap into a breeze. They come in all different shapes and sizes and are fairly inexpensive. Even gifts that are easy to wrap can look even nicer with the use of Christmas gift boxes.

Bayley's Boxes, Inc.

At Bayley's Boxes, Inc, you'll find a large variety of gift boxes that are suitable for wrapping Christmas gifts. Traditional square and trinket boxes are available as are many other interesting shapes. The crayon box is a good one when giving children coloring books and crayons for Christmas. It can also fit other things that shape like soap bars. There also are boxes shaped like stars, pyramids, hearts, and even those shaped like a purse. Bayley's Boxes, Inc is a great place to find Christmas gift boxes. The prices are very low here as well. For instance, you can get a large square box for as low as 99 cents.

The Container Store

You may know The Container Store for its huge selection of supplies for storage and organization. But, did you know that The Container Store also sells gift boxes? Well, what you did you expect? They are, after all, the container store. Gift boxes are containers, right? From traditional white gift boxes to photo boxes and even wine bottle cylinders and more, The Container Store has some great selections at an affordable price. The smallest ones start at just 49 cents each. The Florentine Gift Box that comes with a special ribbon is perfect for a special Christmas gift.

That's a Wrap

Need Christmas gift boxes that are a little more unique? Try That's a Wrap. From boxes made from natural jute to purse-shaped ones, you'll find all sorts of interesting gift boxes to use for Christmas wrapping. The gloss nested boxes are perfect for hats or other circle-shaped gifts. The prices are very affordable, some even under a dollar.

*I originally published a version of this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Shopping for Christmas Gifts With Children in Tow: The Ultimate Guide

12/4/2014

Your One-Stop Resource for Shopping With Kids

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © Georgia National Guard; Flickr.com

Not all parents have the option of leaving their children at home when Christmas shopping. If you are stuck bringing the kids along, here is your ultimate guide to shopping, keeping the kids happy, and still keeping your sanity (yes, even amidst all the "deal-fighting" folks).

In order to remain happy, kids need to be clean, well-fed, with empty bladders, and well-rested. They also need to be entertained. In addition, along with holiday shopping, there may come some negativity from other shoppers. As a parent, you must also do your best to avoid their negativity or at least retain your own composure for the sake of your children. Below, you will learn how to deal with all of those issues, as well as how to sneak in gifts that are for recipients who are with you (a must for many parents).

Cleanliness

Children like to touch many things and this can become a problem when you're in a public place where many other people have touched the same things. This can spread germs. Always bring a small package (or zippered sandwich bag) of hand sanitizing wipes with you. These should be used to not only wipe the children's hands of germs, but also to swipe shopping carts or fast food tables and seats.

For food messes, keep some baby wipes on hand as well. I recommend Huggies Shea Butter wipes, as these are nice and thick and it only takes one quick swipe with these in most instances. Plus, they don't dry out the skin, as they contain the Shea butter for extra softness. These wipes also come in handy for spills and for wiping food off of clothing.

Using Public Restrooms

Many parents are leery of letting the children use public restrooms, as they are often messy. Plus, there is the underlying thought of how many strangers use the same toilet. To save the toilet issue, parents can bring along a folding plastic toilet seat cover and swipe it with the sanitizing wipes after each use. It folds up small enough to easily fit inside a purse or diaper bag. If you're extra nervous about public restrooms, you can even pack your own tissue. Kleenex comes in small purse-sized packages and can work when on the go. Always be sure the children wash their hands. If the sinks are less than sanitary, use the sanitizing wipes instead.

Food

Ah, yes, the children do need to eat, don't they? It seems logical to bring along snacks and beverages for the children, but sometimes in the rush of getting ready, parents don't think of this. I like to pack Juicy Juice boxes or bottles of water for the beverage. My homemade trail mix also makes an excellent shopping snack, as it's lightweight, but filling. Oh yes, and each kid must have their own separate zippered sandwich bag with exactly equal amounts of snack or there is sure to be some sort of disagreement otherwise.

If your child cannot have nuts, substitute any nut product with other things, such as dried fruit or crackers. If you don't have a baby stroller to keep these things under or don't want to carry a diaper bag or knapsack with you, you may want to consider leaving these in the car until the time is right. However, I should mention that it's always easier if they are on hand because as any parent knows, the whining or hunger urges can come at any point, and just your luck, they would come at the moment you decided not to bring your snacks.

Entertainment

Kids can become bored so easily when shopping. In order to keep boredom to a minimum, parents can do things to keep the children busy, like playing simple games or talking about interesting things. The kids can even help with the shopping. Some of my grocery shopping tips also work when gift shopping for Christmas. Gift shopping is also a good time to talk about school, friends, and family events that may be coming up. The key to kids not growing bored is to keep them busy talking or doing something.

Many stores that carry gifts also carry Christmas ornaments, or at least have some sort of Christmas display. Take time out to enjoy the beautiful items for sale or the store displays. Your children will appreciate this. Yes, you can be the annoying person who pushes the button on the singing reindeer for the millionth time. I'm sure the store associates would rather hear that than crying children. Believe me, I know. I've worked retail. Those sound effects items are annoying, but parents who let their children cry endlessly are even worse.

Just have fun and do not rush. Even window shop the toy aisle with the children. If Santa's there, go see Santa. Rushing causes stress. Trust me, you will get much more accomplished when you take your time, choose wisely, and have fun.

Rest

This is the inevitable doom of parents who are shopping. The kids will get tired. So if you've still got shopping to get done, what do you do? I suggest bringing along a blanket for a toddler. Line the bottom of a shopping cart with it. One person can push the sleeping toddler and another can push the cart of gifts. An even better option for babies or toddlers is a stroller that lies down easily. I prefer double strollers, as they also provide extra room for shopping.

If your older children are tired, try taking a break. If you're in a mall, there are probably benches to rest on for a bit. This can also be a good opportunity to replenish with snacks and a drink, to stop somewhere and eat, or to have a picnic lunch in a nearby park. If your children are too tired to even use these ideas, it's time to go home for a nap and come back later or another day. The children's needs are more important than your Christmas list.

Crowds

Some children do not like large crowds of people. Try distracting a child like this with interesting items in the store or with conversation or imaginary play. For older children, try keeping them talking about something that interests them or letting them help pick out gifts for the younger ones. The key is to keep the child so busy and distracted that the crowd goes unnoticed.

Negative People

Sometimes people are stressed and aren't very friendly. Some will even push, shove, yell, or get otherwise physical over an item that they want to buy for Christmas. If this happens and your children are with you, immediately remove yourself from the situation. The item is not worth letting children bear witness to that negativity.

If they are just pushy and no item is in dispute, still remove yourself and your children from the situation. Later explain to your children that it wasn't very nice and maybe that person is having a bad day. If you believe in God, you may also want to encourage your children to pray for the person and forgive the person. This can be an excellent situation for teaching humility, generosity, and forgiveness.

Sneaking in Gifts

Now this is the trickiest part of shopping with children. I think perhaps the best way to be sneaky about it is to pretend the gifts are for someone else. Now, if you've done this for Christmas gifts before and your kids are older, they might catch on, so you'll have to make sure the someone else also asked for the same gifts as your children. Another way to sneak in gifts is to quickly grab them and hide them under other gifts when the children aren't looking.

If you have teenagers, they can go to another part of the store while you purchase and pay for their gifts. Ask the cashiers to provide a dark bag or double or triple the bags to disguise the items. Some stores even have cardboard boxes and if you purchase a roll of tape, you can seal the boxes.

Breakable Items

If you are wanting to purchase breakable items, try carrying a shopping bag or small shopping basket with handles for those items. You may even want to place some soft items in with those for cushioning. Keep these items away from the children as much as possible. When you go down a breakable aisle, keep the toddlers near the center of the aisle (preferable in a cart or stroller). It helps if your children know rules about touching things before you even enter the store.

Overview

Shopping for Christmas gifts can be tricky with children, but it can also be fun. You just have to relax, take a deep breath, and expect it to be fun. If you expect it to be hard and put in no effort for it to be fun, then it will indeed be hard. However, if you go into it, looking for fun, that's what you'll get.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Craziest Family Holiday Traditions - What's Yours?

12/4/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © adrigu; Flickr.com

A diverse group of women from all over the US were recently asked about their craziest holiday traditions. From singing Irish ballads, to banging pots and pans, and even decorating the spooky Christmas tree, these families are very creative in their celebrations. What are your family's craziest holiday traditions? How close (or far) from these traditions are yours?

Spooky Christmas Tree, Anyone?

"Our craziest holiday tradition is that we carve pumpkins at Christmas and decorate our Christmas tree with spooky things. We are huge Nightmare Before Christmas fans and do all of our Christmas decor in a Nightmare Before Christmas theme. Instead of a Christmas party we have a Nightmare Before Christmas party and have our guests come in costume." - Danielle in San Dimas, Calif.

Irish Joy

"One year while getting ready to decorate the tree, Mom suggested I dig out the Christmas albums to set the tone. I couldn't find them anywhere, yet I did find an album of old Irish ballads. Instead of 'White Christmas', Mom and I belted out 'McNamara's Band' and 'When Irish Eyes Are Smiling'. Mom passed on last year, and it's still my favorite memory of time spent with her." - Maureen in Chillicothe, Ohio

Songs for Gifts

"In my house, it is a standing tradition that from the oldest to youngest each must sing a song (holiday or not) before they can open their gift. Let's just say, I don't come from a family of singers and I own plenty of ear plugs!" - Nikol in San Diego, Calif.

Group Calls

"I don't know if it is completely crazy, but each holiday, my siblings and I will have a group conference call. Each one of us will connect one other siblings so we can keep one line open. We then stay on the phone for hours talking about anything and everything. During the hours, we will be cooking and all other activities, but we never disconnect our call unless for an emergency or when we all agree to hand up. We have been doing this for well over 15 years." - Malina in Pensacola, Fla.

Instrument Caroling

"Growing up in a musical family, during the holidays we would go caroling with our instruments. I liked the indoor gigs the best but the outdoor caroling was the craziest. In minus thirty degree weather, our once tuned instruments shrieked and squeaked, but we managed to warm hearts anyway." - Kay in Windsor Locks, Conn.

Pot and Pan Concerta

"Growing up in Roseville and Fraser in the East suburbs outside Detroit, on New Year's Eve, we were allowed to bring out all the kitchen pots and pans at midnight and bang them with big metal spoons and lids as loud and long as we could! We would also listen outside for people firing their shotguns, which is sort of an illegal tradition down that way. Years later, I was babysitting cousins on their first New Year's Eve night and had them do the same thing! They just loved it. At first I think they thought it was silly, but they really got into making a ton of noise in the middle of the night. Years later, I was surprised when one of them told me how vividly they remembered!" - Kim (Pare') in St Ignace, Mich.

Welcome Baby Sun God

"We turn off all the lights in the house, except the TV, so we can see. We do a short Yule ceremony lighting three candles. After a moment of silence we run around the house turning on every single light yelling, 'Welcome baby Sun God!'" - Karen in Fla.

Breakfast at Sheetz

"Every year on Christmas morning we eat breakfast at Sheetz. Started 13 years ago and just stuck. This year will be the first with no Sheetz breakfast." - Summer in Oak Island, N.C.

New Year's Eve Dance

"On New Year's Eve, we have to dance through every room in the house. Crazy, but fun! It ensures good luck and happiness throughout the coming year, of course." - Ali in Greensboro, N.C.

WoW Gifts

"Our craziest and newest holiday tradition is celebrating Winter Vale with World of Warcraft in-game gifts. We aren't obsessive about WoW; we don't even play every day. But some of these gifts take time and effort to collect and cost zero in real money." - Alex in Hogansville, Ga.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Tips for Teaching Kids Holiday Song Lyrics

12/4/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image (c) Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

Want to show off your little angel's voice in time for the holidays? Kids can be amazing singers. But some may have more trouble than others memorizing the lyrics. Be it Christmas, Hanukkah, New Year's, Easter, or any other holiday year-round, kids love singing songs. Here are the lyric memorization tips I've had the best success using with my own kids and those in my care as a former nanny.

Start early. You can't start practicing two days before the holiday if you expect the kids to learn a new song. Have multiple songs? Start even earlier. The more time the kids have to practice and become familiar with holiday sing lyrics, the better they will learn them. While there is fun to be had when kids forget their lyrics, it can be satisfying to them to get through a performance without stumbling.

Practice often. The key to learning anything well is putting it into practice. Holiday song lyrics are no different. If this is for a school program, there is likely a specific time-frame set aside for practice. If it's for homeschool students or your kids are putting on their own show, practice might be done in a central location for several students or it may take place at the park or in the home. No matter the situation, be sure the kids have plenty of time to practice. Some may also choose to practice extra on their own.

Be patient. It may take some kids a while to get the lyrics straight. Be patient and understanding. If they see you get frustrated, they may do the same. A calm and patient environment will likely produce better results than if kids feel rushed. Holiday lyrics can often be confusing to kids because there can be so many variances. They may be used to hearing a song one way and have to learn it another. They may also have never heard certain songs before or just not be good at memorization.

Avoid pressure. This falls in line with being patient. Don't push the kids too hard to learn the holiday lyrics. If they mess up at certain points, it's no big deal. They are kids, not robots. Pressure can actually have the opposite effect you are looking for. It can also lead to the kids not being excited about singing carols or being in performances. Pressure takes all the enjoyment out of an activity that is supposed to be fun.

Have fun! No matter how long it takes to teach kids holiday lyrics and no matter what methods are employed, the most important aspect is fun. Just have fun! If someone messes up the words, laugh it off and start over. Discuss not just the lyrics, but the history and meaning behind them. Play fun games to help with memorization or relaxation. Remember that the point is not to create perfectionism, but to have some fun with the kids. A perfect show is not necessarily one where every kid knows the lyrics. It's one where everyone has fun.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Create a Holiday Wish List Online

11/27/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

A simple way to let people know what you want is to create a holiday wish list online. Otherwise, they may not know what you want. There are several reasons you may want to create a holiday wish list online. One benefit is the ease of having your lists all in one place. The benefit of not having to create a new list to send to everyone is one of the biggest benefits of an online holiday wish list. When your list is online, you can simply direct everyone to one universal list once you are done. Here are several ways to create a holiday wish list online.

Where Can I Create a Holiday Wish List Online?

Amazon has offered an online holiday wish list for some time. Now there are even more Web sites geared specifically toward creating one universal wish list. Wishlistr is one that allows for simple organization for multiple lists and the ability to post an RSS feed to blogs and Web sites. You can also email the online holiday wish list you create.

How Can I Alert People to My Wish List?

Each Web site works differently. For exact instructions, it is important to check the wish list site you use. Email is one way you can alert family and friends when you create a holiday wish list online. Most of these holiday wish lists allow this to be done straight from their Web site. If the one you use does not, it's easy enough to just send a link to your list through regular email. Most sites give you a link for your list. Some online holiday wish list sites allow gift lists to be added to blogs or Web sites with widgets, RSS feeds and other bits of technology.

Is it Rude to Promote My Online Holiday Wish List?

As far as etiquette goes, it will likely depend on who you are sharing the list with, as well as how you share it. A subtle way of promoting and sharing your online holiday wish list is by posting it to your blog or Web site. Family and friends will likely notice it there and you won't be singling anyone out. Some won't notice it, so you may want to use email in those cases. You know your friends and family and should be able to determine how to share your list with them and who will be more receptive to it. When you create your holiday wish list online, it may also help to encourage others to so so as well. This way, they understand you are interested in what they want as well.

Homemade Christmas Present Ideas

11/27/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image © Jeanne Frost; All Rights Reserved (used with permission)

Receiving gift baskets for Christmas often can be a great joy. Homemade Christmas presents are great ways to show appreciation since a lot of love can go into composing them. A good homemade Christmas present idea is one that the recipient will find both useful and meaningful.

Be attentive to the personalities and lifestyles of those you are giving gifts to in order to come up with the ideas that will suit them the best. Amazon is a great source for many of the craft and hobby items required when making these homemade Christmas present ideas.

The Gift Basket

The gift baskets you make can include crafts. First, think about the types of things you have seen in the recipient's home. Also consider what that person likes to do. For example, a car lover who has pictures of cars or car collectibles around the home might appreciate a craft gift basket full of model car kits, model paint, a hobby knife and model glue.

Alternatively, that same person might also enjoy scraps of wood, plastic and other materials that can be used to design his own model vehicle. When considering supplies for homemade Christmas present ideas, everything should be catered to the needs of the recipient. If the gift recipient likes flowers, twist a few floral stems around the basket handles, or you can even incorporate some into the gift itself. There are endless possibilities when it comes to gift baskets as presents for Christmas.

The Food Basket

Christmas-themed foods also make great homemade Christmas present ideas when it comes to filling a gift basket. Foods can include jams, pies, fruits, nuts in the shell, chocolates and peanut brittle. To make them extra special, prepare the foods yourself. If you are unsure how to do this, fear not.

All it takes is a simple Web search to find the perfect holiday recipes. Foods that are great to prepare and use as homemade Christmas present ideas for gift baskets include fruit cake, spice cake, cookies, gingerbread house kits, hot chocolate mix, ribbon candy and Christmas-themed chocolates made from candy melts and molds.

Homemade Christmas Ornaments

There are many homemade Christmas ornaments that can be made from food items. These are great things to put into gift baskets for Christmas. One idea is to take simple dough, roll it out and cut out cookies with cookie cutters. To make the dough, you'll need 4 cups of flour, 1 cup of salt and about 1 1/2 cups of water.

Mix those ingredients together. Flour a flat surface and roll the dough out on it. Use cookie cutters to cut out Christmas shapes. Bake the ornaments until they are slightly browned. Let them cool. For decorating the cookies, any acrylic craft paint can be used. These ornaments make great homemade Christmas present ideas because they

For another homemade ornament idea, read "Kids Christmas Crafts: Recycled Tree Ornaments". Adults can make and enjoy these as well.

Homemade Bath and Beauty Gifts

Most people like to pamper themselves every now and then. A bath and beauty gift basket can be filled with homemade items such as glycerin soap, candles made with a scent personal to the recipient, and custom scented bath salts. You also can blend essential oils together for a personalized combination.

Aromatherapy-at-home.com has instructions for making your own essential oils. If you wish to save time, essential oils can also be purchased and then blended at home to make massage oils, bath oils, salts and more, all targeted to the recipient's needs. Essential oils can be used on the skin, hair and nails as part of a natural beauty regimen to keep them healthy.

If you aren't very crafty but you like the homemade feel you also may want to consider handcrafted jewelry items .

Last-Minute Homemade Cowboy & Cowgirl Costume for Kids and Adults

10/10/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

"Mommy, Mommyyyyyyy!" Your 10 year old is yelling from the second floor. Apparently, the costume she picked out is not what she thought and she does not want to wear it to school. She thinks everyone will laugh. What do you do now? How about making her a quick, easy, ultra-affordable costume? How are you going to do that when she has to be at school in less than an hour? Easy. This simple cowboy or cowgirl costume can be made by using your child's own clothes and just a few accessories that are probably around the house.

For this super simple Halloween costume, all you need is a pair of your child's jeans, a dress shirt, some cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and a handkerchief. The items are the same whether you'll be creating a costume for a cowboy or a cowgirl. A belt with a huge buckle can add to the look. For a girl, you may also want to add an extra handkerchief to cut up for hair ties. You'll see a few options for that shortly.

The first item to put on is the dress shirt. It should be one with a button-up style. One with metal buttons can sometimes have even more effect, as can one made with corduroy or blue jean material. Next are the blue jeans. The blue jeans can be any style. However, those with more slender legs work best. Tuck the dress shirt into the blue jeans and pull out the shirt slightly on the sides, still leaving it tucked in.

Once the jeans and shirt are on correctly, pull on the boots. The jeans should be tucked into the cowboy or cowgirl boots. After tucking in the boots, it is time to add the accessories for your last minute cowboy or cowgirl Halloween costume. Tie the handkerchief around the child's neck and allow the child to put on the belt, securing the buckle in the front. The bigger, the better, as far as the cowboy or cowgirl belt buckle is concerned.

If you are dressing up your little girl as a cowgirl, you may want to accessorize the hair somehow. You can use the handkerchief as a headband, securing it around the child's head and tucking it under the hair in back. Another hairstyle option could be to create two braids and cut pieces of the handkerchief to act as ties for the ends of the hair. One more hairstyle option for this Halloween costume is to make a single French braid in the back. Secure the end by
tying a piece of a handkerchief to the bottom.

The last step to creating a last minute cowboy or cowgirl Halloween costume is placing the cowboy hat atop your child's head. Some may prefer to also tie a handkerchief to the cowboy hat as a hat band. Great cowboy hats can often be found at thrift stores. Thrift store cowboy hats work well because they are often the real thing, versus a cheap Halloween accessory. The boots and belt buckles can also be found at thrift stores. Also, don't forget to ask friends and relatives about these items. If you don't have any of them on hand, chances are that someone you know might.

If you and your child will be out at night, don't forget the glow sticks or flashlights. Have a safe and happy Halloween.

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Homemade Alien Princess Halloween Costume for Women and Little Girls

10/9/2014

by Lyn Lomasi, Staff Writer

Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

"Mama! Mama!"

That was one of my little girls shouting from upstairs. I went up to see what all the fuss was about. It was the night before Halloween, and she was stressing over her store-bought princess costume.

Tired of seeing - and wearing - the same old costume ideas every year? So was I, and so was my little girl. She wanted something unique that none of her friends were going to be wearing. She had just found out that a couple, at least, were going to be princesses - and they had bought their costumes at the same place.

She decided she wanted her princess costume to instead be scary, but in a girlie sort of way. We all racked our brains and in the end she decided her costume would be a princess - not just any princess, mind you - an alien princess. Of course, it was my job to now come up with the costume design that would back her idea and be satisfactory enough for her to be seen around town in. We decided on a homemade alien princess Halloween costume for women and little
girls.

Materials

1 Alien Mask
1 Fancy Dress
1 Wand or Glue and Construction Paper
Scissors
Wig of Braids or Dreadlocks
1 Crown or Tiara
Dress Shoes
2 Pairs of Green Pantyhose or Tights

Homemade Alien Princess Halloween Costume

The first thing you will need to do for this Halloween costume is search your house to see which of these items you already have. You might be surprised at what you find. Also, don't forget that even if you don't have an exact item, you may have something you could use to create the item or to act as a substitute for the item. Most women and girls have at least one frilly dress. In our case, we used an Easter dress that had only been worn by my little girl one time. Any dress with shiny, lace, or frilly fabrics will do the trick. The dress is the first step to creating the perfect homemade alien princess Halloween costume.

The next item you'll need are some green pantyhose or tights. If you can't find any, dye some white ones green with RIT Dye. If you do not have time for that, simply go without the tights. They add effect, but are not necessary. If you are using the tights, use two pair. Cut the legs of the second pair so that you can slide those over the arms.

The next part to the costume involves both the wig as well as the alien mask. Since this is not just any princess, but an alien princess, you'll want the hair to look exotic. Take a dreadlock or braided wig and put that on. Now, on the mask, cut a couple small holes in random areas where the hair would be. If the mask does not have an area that goes over the hair, skip the cutting part. Now, if you cut those holes, once you put the mask on, pull a few braids or dreadlocks through each of those holes. The end result should be pieces of hair randomly sticking out all over the head.

Now slide on some dress shoes and you are almost finished with your homemade costume. The dress shoes should somewhat match the princess dress. You may also wish to add bracelets, necklaces, or other jewelry and accessories.

The finishing touch includes the wand and the tiara. Both items can be bought from the Halloween store, craft store, toy store, dollar store, or even the neighborhood grocery store or Wal-Mart. If you cannot find these items, simply make your own out of construction paper. The design is up to you. For the best results, try to match the princess dress.

There you have it: your very own homemade alien princess Halloween costume for women and little girls. By the way, my little girl won the Halloween costume contest at school for "uniqueness", "creativity", and "best look."

Enjoy! Happy Halloween!

*I originally published this via Yahoo Contributor Network

Last-Minute Homemade Baby Costume for Kids

10/9/2014

Image: Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Does your child need something fun to dress up as for Halloween - at the very last minute? Try a homemade baby costume. All you need are a few items from around the house to complete the look. You may not even need a trip to any store, which is good if you're in a rush.

Gather the necessary materials. To make a homemade baby costume for kids you'll need a white sheet or piece of fabric, large safety pins, long johns or footie pajamas, slippers, red or pink makeup, and any baby accessories (baby bottle, pacifier, etc).

Have your child put on long johns, footie pajamas, or sweatpants and a sweatshirt. To start the baby look, this outfit will be the first step. If your child has none of these, just try to find something similar. The goal is to find an outfit that covers them completely. If you have something skin tone color, that's even better.

Make your child's face look like a baby's. Take some pink or red blush to accent your child's face. Create rosy baby cheeks by drawing circles around the cheeks and filing them in. Applying petroleum jelly to the face beforehand will help prevent itching and will also hold the makeup longer. Pink or red lipstick can add to the baby look.

Next, fashion a diaper. Remember how to put on a cloth diaper? That's how you are going to attach the sheet to your child to create the baby diaper look. Don't remember? You can always watch this online video tutorial for folding a cloth baby diaper onto a baby. Be sure to pin in the proper places to hold the diaper in place long enough for Halloween festivities. You can't have the baby costume coming apart before the fun is over. Also, be sure that your child knows how to detach and reattach the pretend diaper for restroom purposes.

Add accessories to your kid's homemade baby costume. You can use whatever you have lying around. Here are some ideas. Attach a baby pacifier to the front of your child's clothing. If you have a pacifier clip handy, that makes it easy. You can fasten a baby bottle to your child's wrist by tying it to a bracelet. This is easier for carrying purposes. This way, your child's free to have fun without worrying about holding the baby bottle. You can also pin on paper shapes of diaper pins, baby bottles, numbers, letters, and pacifiers. If your child has one of those baby bottle piggy banks, that doubles as an accessory and trick-or-treat candy container.

Kids Angel Halloween Costume: Quick, Easy, Cheap, Last-Minute Style

10/4/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image: mary tempesta; Flickr.com

Need a perfect Halloween costume for your perfect angel - at the last minute? Try an angel. You probably have all the materials at home and it can be made in just a few minutes. This is great for those times when you just need to throw something together and don't have much time or the store is wiped clean.

Grab a white sheet or dress. Either a white sheet or a white dress will work as an angel dress. For the dress, you won't have to do much but have your child put it on. With the sheet, just cut a hole in the middle large enough for going over your child's head. Remember the ghost costume trick? This is just like that, except your child will be an angel, not a ghost, once the accessories are added.

Grab a silver or gray scarf, belt, or fabric scrap. One of these items large enough to span your child's waist will do the trick. Put on the belt or tie the scarf or fabric scrap around your child's waist. This helps avoid the ghost look and get your child's homemade angel Halloween costume look more angelic.

Grab three wire hangers and straighten them. Take the first one and fold one end over to the middle to make a circle. Twist the sections together. Now make a circle with the other end as well and fasten it in the same manner. Be sure there is a straight piece going up between the two and that one circle will securely fit atop your child's head. When it's placed there, the other circle should rise above his or her head like a halo. Set this aside. Take the other two hangers and connect them in the middle, making wing shapes out of each side. Set the wings aside.

Grab some aluminum foil and elastic (or string). This will be the final touch to your kid's last-minute homemade angel Halloween costume. Wrap the foil around the wings, as well as the halo. Now put the halo on your child. Then, you are going to attach the wings. First cut a very lengthy piece of elastic or thick string (yarn and twine both work well). Tie the elastic or string to the middle portion of the wings,with a long piece extending from each end. Place the wings against your child's back and wrap each string end over the shoulder and around the arm on each side. Tie it again in the middle. This should secure the wings.

Now the only thing left to do is send your child off to the costume party or take her trick-or-treating in her new homemade angel costume. Happy Halloween!

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Scary Man On the Porch: Easy, No-Sew Halloween Craft

10/4/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image: Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

Halloween is a night filled with fun for children and adults alike. Part of that fun actually occurs before Halloween. Making your Halloween decorations can be almost as fun as the actual holiday events occurring on Halloween. One fun thing to make is a scary man to sit on your porch.

Your visitors will be enthralled with this particular one, as some might at first think it is a real person. That's part of what makes this one so fun. Below, learn to make your "Scary Man On the Porch" Halloween decoration. This is a no-sew project that most anyone can do. However, if you enjoy sewing, feel free to sew it up if you please.

As you will learn below, your man does not always have to be on the porch. Learn some fun ways to use it once you read further. Also, remember that your "Scary Man On the Porch" does not have to be male. It can also be a woman, if you wish it to be. For easier instructions, it will be referred to as a man, but as stated, either gender is fine.

Materials:

Old Shirt (long-sleeved)
Old Pants
Old Belt
Old Gloves
Old Shoes
Old Socks
Rubber Bands (the larger beige-colored type)
Grocery Bag
Old Wig (optional)
Scary Mask or Realistic Human Mask
Large Trash Bag Full of Leaves or Poly-Fil (polyester fiber stuffing)

Instructions:

First, you'll need to either rake enough leaves to fill a large trash bag or purchase their equivalent in Poly-Fil, which can be found at Hobby Lobby and other craft and fabric stores.

Once you have your stuffing material, get together an old long-sleeved shirt, old gloves, old shoes, old socks, and an old pair of pants.

Your first step is to fill the gloves with the leaves or Poly-Fil. Once they are full (leaving free space at the top), attach the gloves to the wrists of the shirt with one rubber bands (one for each side). Now take your grocery bag and fill it halfway, making a round shape and then securing it with a rubber band.

Attach the grocery bag to the neck area of the shirt using another rubber band. Then stuff the shirt, including the sleeves, leaving a small amount that is not stuffed. Secure it closed with another rubber band.

Next, stuff a pair of socks, secure them with a rubber band, and attach them to the bottom of the pant legs with a rubber band on each side. Then, stuff the pant legs, leaving the top area open. Stick the top half of your man (shirt, etc) into the opening of the top of the pants. Secure it with the belt.

Put the shoes over the socks and also attach your mask, wig, and any other accessories you need to make your man look real. The best results come from either making the Scary MOP look like a family member or from making it look extremely scary.

Fun Ways To Use Your "Scary Man On the Porch"

There are many ways to use your "Scary Man On the Porch", or Scary MOP decoration. Below are a variety of ways to have some Halloween fun with this homemade man.

Place On Porch Swing -- This is perhaps the most common method of getting visitors to think that a scarecrow or fake man is a real person. Prop your Scary MOP on the porch swing or bench in a manner that you think will be convincing to your visitors. When trick-or-treaters or party-goers arrive at your house, they might just think it's you or a friend sitting on the porch.
Place in Pathway -- To mock your visitors, place your Scary MOP in the pathway leading up to the entry of your home. This is sure to trick many visitors.
Place in Mock Graveyard -- Mock graveyards are something many people like to make for Halloween. Consider placing your Scary MOP in a mock graveyard, making it look as real as possible. This will make visitors look twice.
Lay In Pathway -- Place your Scary MOP in the pathway leading up to your door. Although, with this one, I advise making it obvious that he is not a real person, for the simple fact that you don't want people thinking there is a real body in yard - not good.
Hide Behind Bush -- Place your Scary MOP just sticking out from behind a bush. This is sure to make people jump as they won't know if he is a real person or not.

Bonus Tip #1:

For even more fun, you could hide a small cd player inside the Scary MOP that plays ghoulish talking or laughing.When visitors walk past the Scary MOP, they'll think he is talking to them or mocking them. This can get pretty fun.

Bonus Tip#2:

To hold up your Scary MOP when you want him to stand, try using props that will go along with him and sticking them into the ground. For example, if your Scary MOP is a witch character, use a broomstick and stick the rounded end into the ground, using it to stabilize your Scary MOP, possibly by sticking it through the back of its belt. Tilt it to the side a bit to make it look like the Scary MOP is holding the broom instead of the other way around.

*Disclaimer: Neither the author, nor the Write W.A.V.E. Media network is responsible for any events occurring as a result of anything contained in this article. It is up to the reader to use their discretion wisely with any event or action.

**Note: The name "Scary Man On the Porch" or “Scary MOP” was given to this craft by the author. If it closely resembles any other similar entity, the author holds no responsibility. As far as the author is aware, at the time this content was created, no similar craft or item existed with this title.

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5 Vital Trick-Or-Treat Safety Tips for Your Teens

10/3/2014

by Lyn Lomasi; Co-owner of Brand Shamans & Write W.A.V.E. Media

Image: Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved

Before you send your teen out to brave the spooky world of Halloween, make sure to quiz them on vital safety tips. Trick-or-treating is fun most of the time. But it can also be dangerous. Remember, your teens will be out after dark and there are various safety rules that become more prevalent when night time falls.

Be finished by nine. After nine o'clock on Halloween is not a time when you want your teens roaming the streets. Most areas have an unspoken rule or even laws not to trick or treat after this time. There are also curfew laws. Plus, that's when the crazy drunk drivers and other criminals are going to be the most active. Remember that while kids enjoy Halloween, so do adults. And not all of those adults - or other teens who may also be out - are going to be responsible. Safety first.

Don't tease the little kids. "But, Ma, that's no fun!" Your teen can get into trouble teasing the younger kids or stealing their candy. It's harassment and it's also just mean. If they can't get any candy trick-or-treating, then perhaps they are too old. If they ask nicely, perhaps little brother or sister won't mind sharing. You could also buy them their own or let them hand out candy to the younger set.

Wear reflective clothing or use flashlights. Black and other dark colors are popular on Halloween. Be sure the teens wear something reflective and/or carry flashlights on Halloween for their safety. Glow sticks and other light sources that can be worn are a great for this. Drivers can see the teens more easily if they are wearing something reflective or using a light source.

Be sure that masks don't block vision. Some masks and other costume gear can block vision or lower it immensely. Make sure before teens go out that they can see from left to right without having to rotate. They also should be able to see in front of them. Give them a quick finger check test by holding up various fingers at different angles. They might roll their eyes at you and groan, but at least you'll know they're safe. Besides, your teens are likely secretly loving the fact that you care.

Safety comes in numbers. Be sure that your teenager is not going to be trick-or-treating alone or with just one other person. They should be making it a group event. Anyone trying to act ill-willed toward someone is more likely to target those who are separate from the crowd.

Talking to your teen about Halloween safety beforehand could help prevent the wrong kind of Halloween nightmares. Other safety tips may apply as well. However, utilizing these 5 vital Halloween safety tips with your teens is a great start toward avoiding danger on this spooky holiday.

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