Introduce sex toys
Probably one of the most underutilized sex additions are sex toys. People have their insecurities; men think that if they introduce a dildo, their girl would like it more than the real thing. On the other hand, if a girl buys a toy for her boyfriend, maybe he’s going to get bored with her after a while.
You need to shake off these insecurities and realize that nothing can be better than the real thing - but it can make it way more fun. Start by experimenting with your bodies, your fingers and your tongue, reaching into places you normally wouldn’t and when the partner starts liking it, you can take it to the next level with sex toys, such as butt plugs and a pair of handcuffs.
Live out some of the fantasies
Speaking of sharing your fantasies, some of them are meant to become a reality. You need to tread lightly when it comes to living out your fantasies, because what works for you might scare your partner away. People are kinky in their own unique way, and you need to listen and respect the wishes of your partner, and then assess if you want to partake or not.
Always start by telling your partner what really turns you on, what you love fantasizing about and see how they react. If you notice a twinkle in their eye, or a daring smile, you’re in. If not, you might need to work on your pitch a bit more.
Make a home movie
Does a cake taste better when you buy it, or when it’s homemade? Exactly. So use this logic for porn, why would you watch other people do it when you can make a video of your own? After all, you do it way better and it will prove to be way more arousing.
Start talking dirty
Dirty talk is not only arousing and sexy, but it also teaches you how far you can go with your partner, what turns people on and what doesn’t. Introducing dirty talk doesn’t solely mean telling nasty things, some people just aren’t into that kind of stuff, it can also mean telling arousing stories and whispering favorite fantasies to each other.
Take it outside
There is nothing quite like the rush of doing something you aren’t supposed to, like taking your partner for a dangerous sexual adventure in a public place. This can be anything from a public bathroom to the woods somewhere outside the city - the world is your playground. Just be careful not to get caught, because there can be repercussions, but the risk is what makes it so sweet.
Take your relationship to the next level, help your significant other discover who they are and what they like, and create some unforgettable memories that will shoot bolts of lightning up and down your body whenever your mind wanders off and reminds you of the “forbidden” acts that shaped your life.