by Janet Walker, Contributing Writer

People all over the world have sexual fetishes and you may be a little surprised at just how many of them there are. Sexual fetishism is the phrase used to describe a body part, specific object or even a particular situation that causes a person to be sexual aroused that wouldn’t normally be considered sexual. For example, some people have a used panty fetish.

To some people, this may seem very odd but it’s a real sexual fetish just like any other. You don’t hear a lot about it because people are embarrassed to talk about it in fear of being criticize or worse.

What is a Used Panty Fetish? You may be asking yourself, what is a used panty fetish? It’s exactly what it sounds like. A person with this type of fetish becomes sexual excited when they see, handle or smell panties that someone else has worn previously. While this is not something that most people would talk about openly, it’s not considered a paraphilia desire. In other words, it’s not dangerous or a serious abnormal sexual desire.

In fact, it’s perfectly normal as long as it does not cause the person with the fetish or anyone else any type of distress or other problems. For example, stalking or forcing someone to participate in this type of fetish would be abnormal behavior but considering how popular this fetish really is, this kind of behavior is not necessary.

It’s More Popular than You Might Think If you think it would be difficult for someone to indulge in this type of fetish, you might be surprised to learn that there is actually an industry that caters to this particular fetish. It started in Japan where burusera shops were established. A burusera shop is a store created to sell school uniforms and gym suits from young girls, along with other items that include socks, swimsuits and undergarments.

The girls sold these items as a way to make money and when it first started, it was perfectly legal to sell them openly. However, in 2004, a law was passed that banned selling underwear belonging to girls under the age of 18, so these shops had to stop selling the undergarments and other personal items that belong to young girls.

However, that was not the end of the industry by any means. Thanks to the Internet, people can buy used panties online and have them shipped right to their doorstep. Many women willingly sell their used panties online because it is a thriving industry in which you can make good money. Since buying online is fast, easy and discreet, business is booming. If you’re interested in checking it out for yourself, click here to view and/or purchase used panties.

We live in a society that tends to frown upon anything that seems out of the ordinary and there are a lot of people that will make those with this type of sexual fetish feel ashamed of their desires, so they keep it a secret. People are different in every way including what they like and dislike sexual so fetishes are perfectly normal. However, being able to purchase these items discreetly has made it easier for people all over the world to indulge privately. 

by Janet Walker, Contributing Writer

Not everyone can be a stripper as it is a difficult occupation and it can be hard to take off your clothes in front of strangers for money.  Some people have moral issues with it and others feel that they may not be sexy enough to make any money.  But everyone can be a stripper at home and can have fun while they are doing it.  There’s nothing wrong with a little strip tease for a loved one who will appreciate it and love the fact that you tried.  Below are some tips for pulling off the perfect strip tease for your hubby or lover that will knock their socks off!

Stick to Your Comfort Level Even if you are planning on doing a strip tease online to make money, you should only go as far as you are comfortable with.  You can offer a strip tease in the comfort of your home which may take away the scariness of performing in front of “live” people.  If you prefer, you can stick to simply dancing for your partner and they do make an appreciative audience.  Even in this setting, it can be uncomfortable getting all the way naked in this type of setting.  So, if it makes you feel better, only undress down to your sexy lingerie the first few times and then give your lover a surprise with a total nude show when they least expect it and when you feel comfortable enough.

Practice in Front of a Mirror One of the best ways to see how you look when you are dancing is to do your routine in front of a mirror first.  This way you can improve upon your technique without making any mistakes in front of your “audience”.  Get into your full costume, put on your makeup and let go to see what your body and face look like while you are dancing.  Practice does make perfect as they say and it can be fun to just let loose on your own without worrying about what people will think.  You may find that you’re a great dancer and that you have some awesome moves!

Go Shopping Who doesn’t love to go shopping?  One of the best aspects of doing a strip tease is the awesome wardrobe that is worn during the dance.  Don’t be afraid to go to an adult store that specializes in clothing for exotic dancers.  If this is too far out of your comfort zone, go to a party store that sells costumes and pick up a few different fantasy style costumes that you can wear while you are doing your dance.  A sexy nurse, hot maid or even a school girl outfit are all sure to please your spouse or lover in ways that you could never have imagined. 

There is nothing wrong with stripping at home and you should always be comfortable and just have fun with it.  You’ll find that the person you are stripping for will appreciate your efforts and you may just get a sexy dance back in return!

by Cecilia Brown, Contributing Writer

Fetishes go back to the beginning of time.  Since people starting having sex, there has been a certain something that gets the libido going like nothing else.  While some fetishes have come and gone with the times, some have stayed the same over the eons and they vary from person to person.  So what are some of the fetishes that are ages old and what are some of the new fetishes that are currently in rage?  The following shows how fetishes have changed and how they have stayed the same.

Old Fetishes That Stayed the Same There are many old fetishes that will probably never go away.  Foot and panty fetishes are just two that have withstood the test of time.  Of course women didn’t always wear the same style of panties that they wear now but as long as they’ve worn some type of undergarment men have lusted after them.  Foot and other body part fetishes have stayed the same because some people just lover certain body parts.  They strike a reaction in people that nothing else can compare with and make the person with the fetish feel more sexual.  Another type of fetish that has withstood the test of time is cross dressing.  Keep in mind that cross dressing does not necessarily make one a homosexual.  Many people who partake in the behavior simply love the way they look when they’re dressed as the opposite sex.

New and Unusual Fetishes With the emergence of the internet many new fetishes have made an emergence.  Some people have a fetish for internet porn.  It’s not the same if they have to watch it on their television; they want to have the experience with the computer.  They may also chat while they are watching porn or do other activities but this must take place online.  You can even buy used panties online if you’re into that sort of thing, too. It’s easy and discreet.

Another form of fetish that is new is sexting. Some people get off more on sexual texts than they would if they had a real life person in their bed.  They have friends and strangers write texts that talk about what they would do to each other and they also send photos of their private parts to each other to enhance the encounter.  Cyber sex is a similar form of sexting but this takes place on the computer rather than on a cell phone. 

There are only a few common new and old fetishes featured here but there are so many more that it would take days to get to them all.  There is leather, bondage, light S&M, heavy S&M, dominance, and - lace just to name a few more.  Suffice it to say that there will always be some form of fetish as long as sex is in our lives.  Objects and certain body parts will always create a sensual feeling in a person for whatever reason.  Maybe one day in the near future the next fetish will be something different but believe that they will still be around.  Unless of course we procreate through scientific means and become more like robots that humans with a sex drive!

Author Bio:

Cecelia Brown has a fascination with all things love and sex, including fetishes. She often writes about the things everyone experiences but most are afraid to talk about.