Nova really enjoy laughing with Nathan and has pretty much since day one. Enjoy these fun pictures and videos of brother and sister laughing away.
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![]() Baby Nova Skye always has such a cute natural mohawk. Rich and I love it and were both getting tired of our hair. Therefore, we decided to be different with our hairstyles in support of Nova. As always, we were our own hairstylists. No salons are getting our money for something we can do ourselves. Rich got a mohawk. My hair refuses to stay up in the air, no matter what we do, so no mohawk for me yet. But we did reshave the undercut even shorter than before, as well as trim some more off the top. I had to curl it under to make it stay up and the shorter pieces don't stay up unless I do that, hence no mohawk. Oh well. (Our haircuts pictured below) We’re 37 weeks pregnant with Nova Skye Rowell as of May 14, 2016. Keep reading for baby wellness, huge updates, 37 week fetal development, and more! What’s Nova Been Doing This Week? She’s being a cute little baby. But seriously, not much has changed. She’s extremely active, as always and growing too. Read about the doctor’s visit below to see what else is going on, so as to avoid repetitiveness. What Did the Doctor Say and When’s the Next Visit? Rich talked a little about what the doctor said in a vlog update. However, we wanted to further explain in better details what exactly everything means, since a few people had some questions after hearing that update. We were going to get an ultrasound on the 13th (yesterday). However, in order to get the best idea of what's going on for what will probably be the last ultrasound, the doctor would have ideally wanted Nova to be in the head-down position. She had been in that position for over a month. But she’s been extremely active, especially yesterday. So, she moved out of that position at some point. In addition, she was just moving way too much to get a good ultrasound. Therefore, we’re now going to get the ultrasound on the 23rd instead. As a funny sidenote, shortly after we left the doctor’s office, I felt like she moved back in the head-down position, of course. We’re hoping to keep Nova inside a little longer, just to be safe. But, she’s actually at term now, so she’d likely be fine if born today. However, a little extra time (as long as possible before the due date) is always good. At 37 weeks, she's term and 39 weeks is full term. So, we’re going to try to keep her in as long as she’ll stay put, even though Lyn’s in horrendous pain. That said, because of the immense pain Lyn’s in, the doctor did offer to induce at 39 weeks if she isn’t here by then. Normally, we would go the natural route and just let her come when she comes. However, because Lyn’s so miserable and the baby feels what she feels, we think it’s better for her and Nova both if we get induced as soon it’s safe to do so. Therefore, we accepted the doctor’s offer and if she isn’t born by May 31st, we’ll be getting induced that day. Words From the Mommy-To-Be After the doctor visit, I’m feeling both annoyed and relieved. The annoyance isn’t directed at anyone, though. It’s just because I really wanted to see an ultrasound of Nova and that just couldn’t happen. Such is life. I just get annoyed easily lately, due to being in pain and being stressed about the baby for so long. However, that annoyance is small, compared to the relief that we’re at 37 weeks now. Most babies are born between 37 and 42 weeks. So, we’re finally at that point where she is highly likely to be perfectly fine, even if she’s born before the due date. I’m also very relieved to know that if she isn’t here by the 31st, we’re getting induced. It’s not that I want her to come early. Who wants that? But I do know she feels everything I feel and I’m suffering right now from the pain. I don’t want her to feel that. I only want her to feel happiness and comfort. Therefore, the soonest safe time for her to come is really the best for her. Like any mom, I simply want what’s best for my child and I feel like the longer she has to endure the emotions from the pain I feel, the worse it is for her. Babies don’t need to feel that kind of suffering. I’m still not entirely sure that anyone even fully comprehends the amount of pain I’ve had to endure for months without any painkillers at all. I have a very high tolerance of pain. So, if I’m feeling it at all, it’s bad -- and if it’s actually hurting me as bad as it is, it must be way off the charts for most people. With the other kids, I was that mom in labor who was just calmly stating to the doctors when each contraction came and when it was time to push, I just calmly pushed as hard as I could and made it happen. I don’t feel pain like other people do. Therefore, if I’m feeling it now, I’m in bad shape. I just really haven't talked about the depth of the pain much because that’s not me. However, people need to understand how bad it is to understand why I chose to accept the offer to be induced on the 31st. It is very necessary for the mental health of the baby, as well as myself - but I mostly care about it for her. She does not need to be feeling this. Words From the Daddy-To-Be I’m not sure that I have much to add beyond what Lyn has already said. I will say that the sooner Nova is here with us, the better. I made a vlog earlier this week about my perspective during a rough pregnancy. Essentially, I said that it’s extremely frustrating to watch Lyn go through all this, because there is really so little that I can actually do. Feeling powerless to truly help Lyn through her pain is not fun at all. Through all this, though, I’m greatly touched by all of the things that people have done for us in preparations for Nova’s arrival. This past week, we received a couple of large Amazon gift cards with which we bought a few more remaining items from the registry. We also just received a few more clothing items in the mail from a Facebook friend this week. The generosity has been overwhelming, and I can’t thank everyone who has given us much needed items enough. Here are the cute items from our friend, Kathy Dove (click to enlarge): 37 Week Fetal Development Info
Only your healthcare provider can tell you exactly what applies to your specific baby, as they each develop differently. However, the 37 week developmental info below should give you an idea of the typical things you and your baby should experience at 37 weeks gestation. 37 Weeks Pregnant: What’s Going On | Pampers 37 Weeks Pregnant: Information & Tips | Baby Gaga The Inside Story: Fetal Development Weeks 36 Through 40 | Parents Week 37: KidsHealth 37 Weeks Pregnant: Pregnancy.org 37 Weeks Pregnant - What to Expect Week-by-Week | Similac What your baby looks like: 37 weeks | BabyCenter Previous Developmental/Update Post We're 36 Weeks Pregnant With Nova Skye! Fetal Development, Updates, Wellness, & More A Few Related Posts Vlog: OB/GYN Appointment Update May 13, 2016 Infant & Baby Recalls: 180,000 Munchkin Latch Pacifiers Recalled Vlog: A Guy's Perspective in a Rough Pregnancy How to Handle a Pregnancy as Gracefully as Possible Love, Love, & More Love Having Fun Making Cloth Diapers Getting Closer to Baby Day! Who Has a Guess? We’re 36 weeks pregnant with Nova Skye Rowell as of May 7, 2016. Keep reading for baby wellness, other updates, 36 week fetal development, words from both Lyn & Rich, and more!
What’s Nova Been Doing This Week? Nova is more active than ever. It’s fun (and sometimes painful) to see and feel her movements and be able to identify certain body parts. A foot or hand here and there looks quite cool. It’s also reassuring, what with all of the risks, even when it’s painful, such as when she kicks Lyn in the ribs or something. It seems that she’s just as impatient to meet us as we are to meet her. Lyn is continuously experiencing contractions and has been for over a month, which is why she’s on medication, medically-ordered bed rest, and “no-work” orders. Please keep telling Nova to stay in there just a little bit longer. We are very impatient to meet her, but at the same time, we also want her to be okay when she comes. When’s the Next Doctor Visit? Our next scheduled visit is on Friday, May 14th at 10:45 AM Mountain Time. Then, the doctor plans to do another ultrasound and take Lyn off of the medication she’s on for slowing/halting the preterm labor contractions, as long as everything still looks good. At that point she’s term and most babies are born between 37 and 42 weeks Therefore, once we’re there, there’s not as much urgency to keep her inside. It’s fully possible she will come before then, however. The good news is if we make it to the appointment and she’s ready to give birth, the hospital is right next door to the office! In fact, it’s even connected by a bridge on that same floor! We obviously hope she stays in as long as possible. But with all the risk factors going on, 37 weeks is probably the most we can realistically hope for. A Special Birthday, Mother’s Day, Miracle Baby Shout-Out Today is super special for so many reasons. Not only does Lyn get to celebrate being a mom to 4 awesome kiddos (soon to be 5), but we both get to share a birthday together with our perfect match. Yes, we were both born on May 8. Isn’t that awesome!? Today, we are not thinking of material gifts. Our best birthday present is knowing that we are going to be blessed with a miracle baby we never thought would happen. With Rich's chemo treatments and the type of cancer he had, coupled with Lyn’s health issues, Nova Skye came to us as a huge and very welcome surprise. Lyn’s been through hell and back with this pregnancy and is not feeling well at all today. However, Nova is well worth it, as is being able to give Rich his first (and probably only) child. We are under the best medical care anyone could ask for. The OB who’s treating Lyn and Nova has delivered 3 of the other kids and is extremely well-known in Colorado as one of the best. In Lyn’s opinion, he is the best in the world. We also want to say Happy Mother's Day to both of our moms, Jeanne, and Deborah. Both of them have been very supportive throughout this difficult pregnancy. Also, without them, none of us would be here and none of this would be possible. Because of them, we learned to be amazing parents. We are celebrating with Jeanne in-person as a massive birthday, Mother’s Day, and baby shower celebration and with Deb from afar, since she’s in MA and we’re in CO. Though, to us, she is here in our hearts. Also, a special shout-out to Tia and Amber, the two oldest kiddos, who are working hard to make this day awesome. Though, all four of them do amazing things daily. We love them all the time, each of them for their unique qualities and can’t wait to meet the fifth. She’s giving me a hard time today and even though we’d love to meet her, we’re hoping she’s patient enough to wait at least until 37 weeks (Saturday). Words From the Mommy-To-Be This past week has been extremely stressful and exhausting -- and PAINFUL! I’ve had little sleep and lots of pain. However, as much as it would make my body feel better to have Nova come right this second, the goal is still to get to at least 37 weeks. I do so badly want to meet her, but I also want her to be as healthy as possible when she gets here. Therefore, in addition to the normal things, such as eating well and drinking lots of water, I am taking all of the doctor’s advice, as always. The side effects of the medication I’m taking are about as far from pleasant as one can get. However, none of it seems to be putting either myself or the baby in danger. Therefore, as the doctor has recommended, this is really the best course of action to keep her inside longer. We’re almost there. If I made it this far, I can make it another week. Actually, at this point, getting to 37 weeks is less than a week away: 6 days, to be exact. Nova and myself are both fighters. Regardless of when she decides to come, I have faith that she will be just perfect. But I will be focusing on resting and doing all I can to give her the best chance possible. So, if I’m less responsive to people than usual, that’s why. Nova’s health comes before everyone and everything right now. I feel extremely grateful to have the most supportive partner by my side that I could have asked for. In fact, if I had to ask before I had him, I would not have known what to ask for, nor would I have expected what I did get in Rich. Please continue to send positive vibes, light a candle, meditate, pray, or whatever you do that you think will help keep Nova inside for the perfect amount of time to be as healthy as she can be. Thank you all for your continued support. Words From the Daddy-To-Be Really, all I have to say at this point is that I can’t wait for Nova to be here. It’s been quite a ride, getting all of the stuff together for Nova, making her place ready, and going to all of the pre-natal appointments. We’ve already visited the hospital a couple of times and even had an overnight stay. Throughout all of this, though, Nova herself has been fine. Her mother, not so much. Both Lyn and I have had many sleepless nights. I have to be sure to at least get a few hours in so that I can help her take care of what she can’t right now. Yeah, once Nova is here, she’ll need a lot of attention. But it’s a much different kind of attention. I know how badly she wants to meet us. My impatience is pretty maxed out already. Please, Nova, come and meet us now! 36 Week Fetal Development Info Only your healthcare provider can tell you exactly what applies to your specific baby, as they each develop differently. However, the 36 week developmental info below should give you an idea of the typical things you and your baby should experience at 36 weeks gestation. 36 Weeks Pregnant: What’s Going On | Pampers 36 Weeks Pregnant: Information & Tips | Baby Gaga The Inside Story: Fetal Development Weeks 36 Through 40 | Parents Week 36: KidsHealth 36 Weeks Pregnant: Pregnancy.org 36 Weeks Pregnant - What to Expect Week-by-Week | Similac What your baby looks like: 36 weeks | BabyCenter Previous Developmental/Update Post We're 35 Weeks Pregnant With Nova Skye! Fetal Development, Wellness Update, & More A Few Related Posts How to Handle a Pregnancy as Gracefully as Possible Love, Love, & More Love Having Fun Making Cloth Diapers Getting Closer to Baby Day! Who Has a Guess? We're 34 Weeks Pregnant With Nova Skye! 32, 33, & 34 Week Fetal Development, Wellness Update, & More4/24/2016
I know it's been quite a while since we've posted any updates. There isn't a 32 or 33 week post and that's due large in part to my health in the pregnancy, as of late. So, here's what's going on, as well as fetal development info for 32 weeks, 33 weeks, and 34 weeks. We're 34 weeks pregnant with Nova Skye Rowell, as of April 23, 2016. What’s Nova Been Doing During 32, 33, and 34 Weeks? Nova’s been doing excellent. She still moves around very actively and all of her ultrasounds, including a high definition one have shown us excellent things. She’s small, but perfect. I mean, Rich and I are only 5’2” and 5’3”, respectively. So, she probably isn’t going to be too huge, no matter how long she stays in there. Haha We had a preterm labor scare at 32 weeks that is being controlled under careful medical supervision, which is a huge part of why I haven’t been able to get much written. At the high definition ultrasound, received during that visit, Nova weighed in at around 3 pounds and 9 ounces. Her length was 17 inches. That’s relatively small for that gestational age. However, again, both of her parents are small. The key info from that ultrasound, other than the small size, is that she is doing extremely well and is fully developed. As with most babies at this stage, lung (and other respiratory) function after birth is the main concern if she were to be born early. There’s no way to know how that will go until they are born, so it’s always best they stay in as long as possible until the due date, or at least until term, which is 37 weeks. The follow up appointment on 4/21 went well. Nova’s heartbeat is still super strong and all of my measurements are as they should be. I may not be doing that great, but despite that, she certainly is thriving and that’s the goal. As my mother-in-law Deb pointed out, she’s definitely a fighter. When’s the Next Doctor Visit? The next prenatal visit is May 6th. But of course, if anything happens that requires further evaluation before then, my OB will see me and in an emergency, the ER is obviously available. Hopefully, all will be as uneventful as possible and that appointment date will remain as it is. How’s the Momtrepreneur and Daddy-To-Be This Week? In short, we’re both very stressed and I’m very sick, but we’re making the best of it and know that Nova will be well worth it all. Yesterday (4/23/2016), I was vomiting severely, some containing a small amount of blood after a while. The severe pain increased. So, I called my OB to ask what I should do. He increased the dosage times of my medication and told me to lay only on my left side and eat the BRAT diet and drink water, chew ice, or drink ginger ale and not move at all. He said the blood was likely due to my insides getting irritation from so much vomiting. That makes sense since it was a small amount and only occurred after that was going on for a bit. He said if I were to go to the hospital like that, they'd likely admit me to bed rest there and he'd rather have me be comfortable at home if possible. We agree. But if it gets worse or certain other things happen (such as more labor signs), he wants me to call him and have things reevaluated. Obviously, if it's an emergency, we'd head straight to the hospital and call him on the way. His recommendations have helped so far. The medicine is quelling the contractions to a point where I don't have to go in and the vomiting has stopped. I'm still in massive pain, however. So, if I'm not as responsive as usual, that's why. Don't worry, I'm resting as I post this and I'm stable enough to be at home, rather than the hospital. Rich has taken over everything I do, on top of what he does. Plus, he is there to comfort me and take care of me. So, if he's also less responsive and less active at posting, that's why. Thanks for all the love and support, everyone. It really means a great deal to us. Accomplishments During Week 32 , 33, & 34 of the Pregnancy We actually accomplished quite a bit, considering all that's happened. In fact, making it to 34 weeks has been a huge accomplishment, in itself. I would say that’s the biggest accomplishment so far, in light of all the issues I’ve been having. If we can get to at least 37 weeks, that’s even better. So far, so good. We got some low odor paint that doesn’t seem to be bothering my allergies at all, so that’s good. The kids are helping get that done, since I am pretty useless at this point, as far as doing the things I usually do (home improvement, normal household duties, work, etc). We wanted to finish up the walls before the baby comes, as that is really the main issue in our area of the house. We also got some great bargains on baby items, as well as some items for Aja and Nathan. Our local thrift store saved us once more and we were able to get 160 clothing items for only $16. No kidding. We don’t really care too much about brands. However, most all of them happened to be brand name items. Guess what?! We aren't selling our vehicle anymore. Not that we don't need the money, but all we kept getting were scam offers anyhow and we really do need the vehicle with such a large family. So, instead, we put it back on the road. We had already fixed the alternator previously. So, all it took was a battery and registration. Yay! It's an older model ('97 Toyota 4Runner Ltd), so it's not like we were going to make a huge enough amount to be able to move and maintain rent and bills anyway. We just thought it would help. Let's see, I also cut my hair because, unlike the other pregnancies (which made my hair awesome), this one has done some serious damage to it. I'm not exactly happy about having short hair because I prefer it long and my hair takes FOREVER to grow. But it was super unhealthy. It ended up getting straight and full of split ends and my hair is normally curly and shiny. I'm not well enough to spend the time it would take to revive it. So, I opted for cutting it. There's still some more work to be done on the style I actually want. But, for now, it's manageable and healthier. The animals have been awesome helping everyone else take care of me. I also managed to get some more cloth diapers done and fix up the page I'll be selling them on here once I'm done making enough for Nova. I have to make hers first and then I can focus on making more to sell. We desperately need the money, so hopefully I'll be able to get that done soon. Also, we’ve been receiving even more generosity than ever, between people reaching out with love and emotional support to a couple people helping once again with the baby registry. If you’d like to help, the main thing we need on the registry is fragrance free baby wipes. If you can’t afford to help, it helps us a ton when our links from this site and the others we own are shared via social media. And, last but not least, Love, Love, & More Love is hugely appreciated. For fetal development info in relation to 32, 33, and 34 weeks, continue below the galleries. (Remember, some images may need to be clicked on for the full view.) All Images © Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved Gallery 1: Hospital Photos Gallery 2: Thrift Store Bargains Gallery 3: Awesome Items We Received From the Baby Registry Gallery 4: Miscellaneous 32, 33, & 34 Week Photos All Images © Lyn Lomasi; All Rights Reserved Interesting 32, 33, & 34 Week Fetal Development & Pregnancy Info
Because I’m in such pain, I’m unable to write more personally about this right now, like I usually do. However, here are links to some great info elsewhere, followed by our related posts. 32 Weeks What your baby looks like: 32 weeks Pregnancy Week 32 32 Weeks Pregnant: What’s Going On? 32 Weeks Pregnant 33 Weeks What your baby looks like: 33 weeks Pregnancy Week 33 33 Weeks Pregnant: What’s Going On? 33 Weeks Pregnant 34 Weeks What your baby looks like: 34 weeks Pregnancy Week 34 34 Weeks Pregnant: What’s Going On? 34 Weeks Pregnant Previous Developmental/Update Post: 30 - 31 Weeks Pregnant - Milestones, Fetal Development, Our Updates, & More! A Few Related Posts Getting Closer to Baby Day! Who Has a Guess? Having Fun Making Cloth Diapers Keep Yourself Inside Longer, Nova! Our Preterm Labor Scare Love, Love, & More Love Because I haven't been doing so well during this pregnancy, especially with the latest scare, people have been asking how they can help. The simple answer is love, love, and then more love. Here's why.
Love is the strongest force on this planet. So, if anything can help Nova, Rich, and I get through this, it has to be love. While things are getting pretty risky from here on out, we feel that putting lots of love and positive energy surrounding Nova out in the universe will greatly outweigh the bad. Regardless of when little Nova decides to arrive, we are putting only good energy into her arrival. This is why it may seem at times that we're overly positive about her possible early arrival. It's not that we want her to be here early. Who would purposefully want those risks? But we also want (and need) to look at the positive side, in case it happens. So, if you want to help, send lots of love and happy healthy energy Nova's way, whether she listens to our insistence to stay put longer or not. Thanks! We love you all! (The best thing about love is that when you give it, it comes back.) |
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